I am going to have sex for the first time soon. Any advice/tips?

I need advice as such as what to expect, or how to make it more enjoyable for her. I am a boy.I am going to have sex for the first time soon. Any advice/tips?
SO.......many things to share with a first timer. #1 your going to want to explode asap, don't do it if you want to enjoy it. Don't be afraid to back off and say wow we gotta slow down cause I want this to last. HAHA isn't that great advice, I know I went like in 5 minutes and was like, its over? HAHA in the back of the mini-van, good times when I was 16.





#2 don't be afraid to lick that.....you know...check out some porno and get some technique, if you get her good she will keep cumin back just for that, I promise.





#3 if your on top put a pillow underneath the crest on her lower back. Once again, trust me on this its good.





#4 Condoms are good practice but the mouth is a much higher quality receptacle. I don't know if you can convince her of that but boy if you can, HAHA, talk about making your toes curl!





This is fun, you must not have many guy friends who have had sex cause these are no brainers!I am going to have sex for the first time soon. Any advice/tips?
The best advice I can give you is DON'T!!!


But if you are going to, be safe use protection! That is one thing that will make her comfortable, because she will know you care about yourself enough and her enough to wrap it up. Also, take your time. Don't rush, and pay attention to her body, and her responses to your actions. Listen to her body, if she likes it do it more, don't over do it. If she doesn't like it, never ever do it again, and above all even though its your first time, try to make sure you last long enough to pleasure her or it may be the end of your very short sex life. No pressure! =)
If you are not married to her, you will regret not being able to give yourself to your wife without comparing your wife to your prior lover(s). The beauty of love without regrets should be preserved for marriage. That does not mean that love cannot be good after sex outside of marriage, only that you will always have regrets that you did not wait. You will love your wife, but you will always compare her to the others. That is not fair to her.
You need to get her wet first for lubrication. Great ways to turn on a girl is to kiss her neck, and neck bone. Let your breath slowly hit her there, and maybe chew gently on her neck. Another thing you could do is start with some foreplay. Play with her ****, lick chew...be creative. You could also eat her out. Stick your tongue up there and spin it around. After she's wet stick it in gently and slowly. Then take gentle but firm thrusts at a constant rate. You want to make sure she cums before you...the hardest part. If you're doing the work you get the advantage you can slow down if you think your going to blow, is she's doing the work she'll keep going and you got to bite your lip clench and hope you don't *** early. If you can *** before you have sex and think you can go again, do that...you'll last longer.
Well, for one, I hope that she is a virgin as well as you are. For that is something you can't get back.


The first time, it is going to be a new experience for you. As some of the others have said, take it a bit slow at first, and yes, be passionate. Let your partner know, that they are loved, and you care for who they are, not what they have.


The first time for a girl, may be a bit painful, as perhaps her hymen (AKA: cherry) may break. For some girls, that is more painful than others, or so I've heard.


Play some music in which you are both into. I wouldn't say the radio, but maybe off your media player/itunes/Zune/iPod/MP3 player on some speakers, though not too loudly to make it a bit more comfortable. (My girlfriend and I have a few songs, in which we consider our 'sex songs').


If this is her first time, she probably won't be expecting things from you such as oral first. Though, it may make things a bit more comfortable if you touch one another first. So that you both can explore each other.


I hope you both enjoy this new experience.


Just do yourself, and herself a big favor, and get a condom. (I recomend the Male condom=as they have the highest percentage of keeping her from getting pregnant)


As my dad told me: ';The mother of your child, will ALWAYS be the mother of your child.
Buy condoms. Ultra thins cause you wanna feel as much as possible for your first time. Believe me when I say that you finish fast, probably within the first 30 seconds. You might be embarrassed but trust me it's normal. After you ejaculate for the time, take your condom off wipe yourself off, and go pee(this is done to clean out your urethra of any sperm left). Wash your self. Give yourself like 10 minutes and have her give you oral. The second time around you'll last alot longer and she'll thank you for finishing so quickly the first time. Also you last longer if your laying on your back and she's on top and practice putting on a condom and ejaculating into it so that you get a feel for it. Enjoy your-self and enjoy her. There is only one first time
FOREPLAY FOREPLAY FOREPLAY...





sex is like running a marathon... you need to warm up... kissing, touching, going down on each other and getting each other in the mood is a great way to become relaxed. if it is her first time too, be careful. She will be much more tense then you. make sure you wear a condom and assure her during sex, simple questions like... ';are you alright, do you want me to keep going'; will show her that you care, and that you want to make sure that she is ready. if she says she wants to stop... THEN STOP, because anything after that is perceived as rape.





some tips...


*put some music on, something light but fun... make a playlist, with some of your fave songs on... eg: wonderwall by oasis and 3am by matchbox 20... songs similar to these


*if you both decide to completely naked, DONT stare at her body.. it will make her feel self concious, even if she has a body like elle macpherson.


*once its all over, just lay there for a couple of mins... 5-10 mins usually, just lay in the silence with your arm around her and let her nestle in your arms, kiss her forehead, you have both just overcome a milestone, bathe in the sweetness.


*it wont feel that good on either of your ends... just relax, the less tense you are, the better it will be for both of you.





GOOD LUCK!
haha well i agree with the first two answers. however, i realize the punishment for my sins and I'm always asking for forgiveness.........but anyways...so sex for the first time huh.....Im a guy and my first sex experience was an interesting one. I snook into the girls house with her mom asleep in the next room and i had just met her a day before at taco bell. i would suggest having music that both of you like and i would also suggest spermacidal condoms. lube would also be helpful too. going slow is a must and try not to freak out you may begin to bleed.
Well if she is a virgin take it slow as ****, you don't want blood all over your dick. My tips are keep it passionate kiss her like crazy while you do it maybe move down her body with your lips. Kind of bite her bottom lips but don't make it bleed %26lt;(^_^)%26gt; Don't make it seem like you just wanna **** and go home make her want it again. Take your time though depending if she can last longer go slower.
get the right hole , use protection , get some lubricant or if you want to save money butter works . choke the chicking before having sex you will last longer , have a shower or bath before and after sex , and don't have to much to drink or you may not get it up :)
start off slow with lots of foreplay. this will give you guys time to think first and make sure you are ready and also gives you clues on what she will like. be very gentle to her because if it is her first time too just know that it will hurt her so keep that in mind. if she pull away stop and give her time. after the first few mins yall will enjoy it! REMEMBER: ALWAYS USE PROTECTION!!!!!!!
its not fun at all the first time, just had mine a couple days ago. it hurts realy bad for the girl and she';ll prolly tell you to stop. youll hava hard time finding it because shes a virgin, and its more work than fun. also, wear a condom!!!
try different positions to vary it up, go down on her, DONT ask her to go down on you. if she's comfortable with it, she will. lube is always fun, and playing music is always a plus. not porno music, just something you're both into. good luck ;]
you need to be very aware of how SHE is feeling. so that you can make it more enjoyable for her, and less painful. and just be yourself
Kissing on the lips is nice. But there's another kiss-spot she'll like even more. Take your time. Provide lubrication--just in case. And, of course, PROTECTION. Most of all, have fun!
don;t listen to what them other people are saying yes you have to use a condom but don't do it if you don't want to do it ... when you are ready!!!!
Just relax, dont think too much while your doing the deed, and have fun..its okay to have a few laughs the first time.. =) it will only get better.. hope i helped!
do the girl a favor that she isnt doing herself: dont do it.


she couild get pregnant and it would ruin a lot of things.


unless ur married but u rnt r u?
Don't expect much, its going to be short and awkward, and painful for her.





Wrap it up!!!
Wait dude I lost my virginity and to a girl I didnt care for and wish I could change it make sure shes special and treat her that way.
Sounds Like You Have This Like..Written Down On A Calender Or Something....





Use Condoms, Know If She's On Birth Control Or Anything Like That....





Just BE CAREFUL!
uhm, use protection, and dont push her if you feel she's feeling uncomfortable...
its not a good idea to do it if your not married to her. god will punish whoever does it before marriage. its a sin.
use a condom and yes precum can get her pregnant.
go slow. like your rhythm. haha.
first time... never fun


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