Can anyone give me good sex advice & tips?

I'm an 18 year old virgin.. But I'm ready to lose it to my boyfriend, who I love so much. We tried recently, but the pain for me was a little unbearable =/. Is there any techniques on how to relax your body more? I know that's a silly question. I just need help on trying to make it LESS painful.Can anyone give me good sex advice %26amp; tips?
a little alcohol helps.. to relax...





lots of foreplay to get the juices flowing...





you to relax to you don't tense and hurt yourself...





lots of lube...





and try to enjoy it...Can anyone give me good sex advice %26amp; tips?
Yes! Start by useing two finger inserted in your vigina stretch it untill you get used to it and no longer hurts. Then insert three fingers do this untill it no longer hurts. Insert them as deeply as posible. When you and your bf get ready to have sex make sure you are good and wet. Also have some ky-gel and use some of that. That way you will be well lubricated and he will slip in easly. It would not hurt if he preformed a little oral on you to help excite you more before penitration.That will also help relax you more. Good Luck.
Dear Devoted,





When you are together, do not be rushed, take time with each other. You might find it exciting to experience each other in the shower, as an experiment.





If you want to share more, get back to me.





Anthony
Well if its you and you bfs first time I would take it really slow. Make it really intimate. Do missionary and try to keep you hips and stomach and legs relax. Spead them as far as you can and if need be get some lube. Foreplay would be a good idea as well. Good luck
Often the pain first time is nasty and of course you not knowing what to expect only makes your muscles tighten more, so of course that is not helping. But it is only natural to feel this way. So you need to relax and not tense up so much. Easier said than done, especially as you have now had a go at it and it hurt you.





Why not try when you have has a glass or two of wine? that may well help. But also don't make prior arrangements to have a go on a certain day or time. Both of you wait until passions are running high. And also girls are often very disappointed the first time, often for quite a few times, because it takes time and practise to know each others bodies. But will all come together in time.





There are exercises to tighten up the virgina muscles but there are not any to make them loose. So there is not much help I can give, other than to state let the moment happen when your both ready, never plan where and when. It would also be good to let your boyfriend see my answer to you, for a lot depends on him too. for example he should not keep trying once he realises your in discomfort, but just cuddle up with you, and tell you not to worry. It will all come about in its own good time. I hope you have given some consideration to birth control methods, women can and do become pregnant even though it was their first time.





I wish you good luck, but the key word is LEARN TO RELAX !
Hi devoted, try using some KY Jelly and have him go real slow. And have lots of fore play before you have sex so you can get more wet down below. He may just be too big for you, that does happen sometimes.